Wichita Wedding Blog

The Beauty and Wisdom of the Uncomplicated Small Wedding.

9/28/2021

Simplicity comes from a position of refined beauty with the intent of fully enjoying the experience.
The wisdom comes from having the insight to avoid undue stress and expense on your wedding day, while keeping focus on what is most important, the act of getting married.
There is a natural harmonious unfolding of time and space by avoiding excessive details and distractions.
The reward is truly being present and in the moment when you marry...absolutely priceless.

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Fall Wedding Ideas for Wichita Kansas

9/20/2021

The Picture Perfect Days of Fall
for Your Nuptials

Autumn Wedding Season begins
September 1st through November 30th.
Fall weddings are very romantic and always in high demand.
The changing of the leaves offer a stunning backdrop of natural colors for your nuptials, courtesy of Mother Nature. The cooler temperatures are perfectly suited for a lovely and very enjoyable outdoor wedding.

The Picture Perfect Days of Fall for Your Nuptials

Here Are a Few of Our Favorite
Affordable Fall Wedding Venues

Keeper of the Plains Landmark Weddings

Riverside Park Weddings
Mini Water Fall or Gazebo

Douglas River Corridor Riverside Weddings

Affordable Elopements and Small Weddings

Elopements & Small Weddings Up to 50 Guests
Ranging from $195 to $295

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Best Small Wedding Ideas Under $500 in Wichita KS

8/2/2021

Sunset Riverside Weddings

The Perfect Weekend Elopement Getaway in Wichita Kansas

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Scenic Landmark Riverside Weddings

Stunning Landmark Sunset Elopements in Wichita Kansas

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Scenic Weddings

Picture Perfect Outdoor Weddings

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Simply Sweet Little Elopements

Small Weddings Under $500

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Casual No Hassel Elopements at the Mini Gazebo

5/26/2021

Just Marry Us Elopements
Offered May through November
Summer Sunset Ceremonies

Enjoy a Simply Lovely Little Elopement
at the Mini Gazebo

Mini Gazebo
Just Marry Us
Weekday Specials
A Lovely Courthouse Alternative
( Bride & Groom Plus 2 Witnesses )
Mon - Tues - Wed - Thurs - Mini Gazebo Venue Only $95
Need Witnesses? Add Legal Witnesses on Request!
Just Marry Us with Guests: Bride, Groom & 6 Guest $135

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Beautiful & Affordable
Riverside Landmark Weddings

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Sunset Wedding Ceremonies in Wichita KS

3/21/2021

Summer Scheduling:
Late June - July - August - Early Sept
Please Note: During times of high heat and humidity we offer Sunset Ceremonies Only.
Ceremony Start Times: 7:30pm-8:00pm or 8:30pm
Use the app below to calculate sunset times for your desired wedding date.
TimeAndDate.com

Early Spring and Fall Scheduling
April - May -Early June - Late September - Oct - Early November
Ceremony Start Times Offered: 1pm, 2pm, 3pm

Choose a Venue, Select Your Guests List Size, Save the Date ... Done!
It's Just That Easy!

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Douglas River Corridor
Suitable for Simple Elopements and Small Weddings up to 50 Guests

Keeper of the Plains
Suitable for Simple Elopements and Small Weddings up to 26 Guests

Riverside Park Gazebo
Suitable for Simple Elopements and Small Weddings up to 26 Guests

Riverside Park Mini Waterfall
Suitable for Simple Elopements and Small Weddings up to 26 Guests

Classic Kansas Traditional Fireside Ceremonies

11/13/2020

Classic Kansas Traditional
Fireside Ceremonies.
Four Fabulous Options to Choose From!

Precious Vows Ceremonies and The Cottage Venue in Haysville Ks
Bringing You a Lovely Selection of Classic Traditional Kansas Country Style Fireside Wedding Options.
The Perfect Choice for Winter Elopements and Small Weddings
this Holiday Season.

There are Five Fabulous Winter Holiday Months to Choose From
November, December, January, February and March.
Reserving your Elopement or Small Wedding super easy...
just a few clicks and voila!
You have just created the perfect holiday season wedding!
Don't Delay, Save the Date Now, Winter Dates Book Quickly!

Winter Wedding Specials

Small Wedding Venues in Wichita Kansas

10/5/2020

Best Landmark Venues for Elopements and Small Weddings
in Wichita KS
So Simple... Choose a Venue... Select Your Guest List Size...
Save the Date...Done!
It's Just That Easy!

Open Prairie Sunset Ceremonies
Beautiful & Affordable Countryside Nuptials
Elopements & Weddings

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Douglas River Corridor Wichita KS
Stunning Riverside Weddings
Suitable for Elopements and Small Weddings of up to 50 Guests
Dining and Lodging Just Steps Away!

Keeper of the Plains Wichita KS
Unforgettable Riverside Weddings
Suitable for Elopements and Mini Weddings up to 26 guests

Riverside Park Gazebo
Scenic Lilly Pond
Suitable for Elopements, and Mini Weddings up to 26 guests

Mini Water Fall Riverside
Suitable for Elopements, and Mini Weddings up to 26 guests

Mini Gazebo Derby KS
Simply Lovely Little Elopements
Suitable for Elopements and Micro Weddings up to 16 guests
Fur Babies Welcome!

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Winter Wedding Specials
Holiday Elopements and Small Weddings

Have a Simply Sweet Mini Gazebo Sunset Elopement in Derby Kansas

7/29/2020

Have you been considering a simply sweet
no fuss romantic little elopement?
Just waiting for the right time and right place?
Well, good news ...the wait is over!
A Favorite for Simply Sweet Little Elopements and Lovely Little
Low Cost Blended Family Weddings.

Enjoy This Perfect Little Hidden Gem for
Your I Do's.
Offered Spring - Summer - Fall

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Fireside Winter Wedding Specials

Simple Affordable Weddings in Wichita Kansas and Surrounding Areas

2/21/2020

Affordable and Beautiful
So Simple... Choose a Venue... Select Your Guests List Size...
Save the Date... Done!
Prices Range From $195 to $395
Explore All the Wonderful Options!

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Fireside Winter Weddings

Winter Wedding Specials

When to Book the Wedding Officiant?

1/8/2020

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You'll find that most conventional wedding planning lists and tips often place this vital To-Do somewhere near the middle or bottom of the list, in some cases it's simply over looked altogether.
The important take away from is, just because it's conventional wedding advise, that doesn't mean it's correct!

In the real world, you should book your wedding officiant immediately after securing your wedding venue.
Here's the real life order in which to should proceed.

Decide on Your Budget
Secure the Wedding Venue -Set Your Date
Book the Wedding Officiant
Order Wedding Invitations
Now you have a solid wedding foundation to work with.

The second priority is to place your focus on
the Live Vendors you wish to hire.

Wedding Attire
Photographer
Entertainment - DJ
Caterer
A Planner if needed
Transportation if needed

The third focus now goes to various products.
Wedding Cake
Flowers
Favors
Special Decorations

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Wedding Wisdom Tips
Wedding Officiant, How to Choose the One that's Right for You.
When to Book the Wedding Officiant?
Wedding Wisdom Tips for Wedding Planning in Wichita Kansas Wedding Rehearsal Considerations
Four Key Elements to an Amazing Wedding Ceremony.

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Wedding Rehearsal Considerations

1/7/2020

To Rehearse or Not Rehearse.
Here are the answers to that question.

Not every wedding requires a wedding rehearsal.
If you are planning on a casual and relaxed ceremony, then a rehearsal isn't really necessary.

A good rule of thumb is...if you are having no more than one or two wedding attendants each, with one flower girl and perhaps a ring bearer, and you have decided on a simple ceremony...it's likely that you'll not need a rehearsal and you'll be able to manage it on your own with a few tips from your Wedding Minister.

That said...if you plan on having more attendants than mentioned above... a wedding rehearsal will be necessary to insure everything goes smoothly and beautifully during your ceremony.
If you aren't sure...always speak with your Wedding Officiant...he/she will be able to help you with that decision and offer available insight and advice.

A wedding rehearsal is based on the degree of ceremony formality.

The benefits of having a wedding rehearsal, aside from the obvious...it's a time to help you and your wedding party get comfortable with the timing and order of the ceremony proceedings before the big day.
Keep the rehearsal dinner to follow a casual, lighthearted affair, giving everyone a chance to catch their breath and get antiquated.

Wedding rehearsals are typically one hour and you'll need every moment of it to cover all the details and ceremony choreography. To void overtime charges from your wedding officiant, it's a good practice to avoid drinking prior to the rehearsal.

Being alert and attentive during the rehearsal helps everyone involved in the ceremony to feel less nervous on the day of the ceremony. In most cases, two walk-throughs is recommended to insure everyone is comfortable and confident with the ceremony proceedings. Everyone will know where to be and when. Also, the rehearsal is a good time to hand out lists of duties to the attendants of the ceremony.

During the rehearsal your officiant will go over many details.
Such as where to stand and what to do during the ceremony, where and how to enter and exit and how to pose for the best presentation of your ceremony.

Part of the rehearsal will address ( the processional ) entering and ( the recessional ) exiting, it's is a mixture of timing and graceful art form. Like learning to dance well, it's about the steps, timing and execution that makes a beautiful presentation.
If you plan on having live musicians for the ceremony, they should attend the rehearsal too, so you and your attendants will be able to recognize the musical cues throughout the ceremony.

Your Officiant / Minister will always insist on personally conducting rehearsal and arranging the ceremony proceedings from Processional to Recessional.

TIP: At times, inexperienced Wedding Planners may offer, as part of their services, to conduct the wedding rehearsal and conduct the ceremony proceedings.
** An experienced and professional planner will not. **
To clear the confusion...the purpose and function of a Wedding Planner is to coordinate all things to do with preparation prior to the ceremony and after the ceremony, not the rehearsal or ceremony proceedings itself.
When in question, always ask your Officiant for clarification on such matters.

There are never any two wedding ceremonies alike.

Just as there are no two couples alike, there are no two weddings alike.
There are always variations depending on the venue selection, available amenities, indoor vs.outdoor ceremonies, the time of year, the time of year, the level of formality and of course the personal style of the To Be Wed Couple...just to name a few. There are many factors the Officiant will take into account when contemplating the presentation of your wedding ceremony.
However, to give you a little insight as to how a wedding rehearsal and ceremony might be conducted, here's a basic sample to consider.

The standard processional line is formed in order of appearance, which will be:

Bridesmaids
Maid of honor
Ring bearer and flower girl
Bride and father

The timing of each person’s entrance and the pace of the walk will be determined during the rehearsal. Timing is usually established by the distance between each person, and also by the music. Timing is especially important if you want to make the most of ceremony photo opportunities during the processional.

TIP ** The one of the many benefits of selecting an experienced and skilled Wedding Officiant is they will be able to anticipate and adjust effortlessly to any unforeseen seen factors that may arise in the moment without skipping a beat.

When the bride enters the room, she should walk on her father’s / escort's right, or on the right side. When she arrives at the altar, her father / escort will give her hand to the groom. The officiant will address the father / escort, "Who gives this woman." During the rehearsal, we will go into much more detail and teach you what to say and do. The maid of honor will move forward to take the bride's flowers and return to her position.

Vows that require a response from the bride and groom will be cued and guided by the wedding officiant-- that way neither the bride nor the groom will miss their cue during the ceremony. Going through these cues will definitely calm all the participants down a little on the day of the wedding, All can confidently enter the room, take their places, and execute their responsibilities with ease and grace.

The rehearsal dinner is a great time to hand out printed lists of duties for the attendants. They need to know what is expected of them, and when they are “on call.” Here are sample lists of the common duties for traditional attendants. Obviously, if the best man is a woman, she will not help the groom dress, so adjust the duties to accommodate your wedding party

The Best Man Duties...the team leader

The Best Man is seen as the team leader of all things to do with the men in the wedding party.
The Groomsmen are the team players...the offer support and assistance to the Groom and the wedding.

Help the groom dress
Get the clergy person fee in a plain envelope from the groom and deliver it to clergy person on the day of the wedding
Remind the groom of the marriage license, airline tickets, luggage, traveling clothes, etc..
Sign the marriage license as a witness
Keep the groom calm
Carry the ring in a coat pocket
Take the groom’s gloves during the ceremony, if he has any
Offer the first toast at the rehearsal dinner and the reception
Hide the going-away car
Help the bride and groom escape after the reception
Return the groom’s clothes to his house or the rental store

Maid or Matron of Honor Duties...the team leader

The Maid or Matron of Honor is seen as the team leader with all things to do with the women in the wedding party.
The Bride's Maids are the team players...the offer support and assistance to the Bride and the wedding.

Sign the marriage license as a witness
Help the bride dress prior to the ceremony, help the bride with her gloves, train, veil, flowers, etc. during the ceremony
Hold the groom’s wedding band until it is requested

Usher's Duties...the team players

Ushers are responsible for:

Lighting the aisle candelabra 15 minutes before the ceremony
Seating guests
Taking down pew ribbons as the pews are needed
Putting the aisle runner in position and removing it after the ceremony
Participating in the processional and recessional
Escorting the bride’s and groom’s parents out, then dismissing one aisle at a time after the ceremony
Dancing with the bride and bridesmaids
Bridesmaids
Help the bride with errands
Participate in the processional and recessional
Greet guests in the receiving line

As with any other rehearsal, all the participants should pay close attention to their directions. Working all the kinks out during the rehearsal will make your wedding ceremony proceed smoothly and beautifully.

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Affordable Spring Garden Weddings. Big Savings plus Whimsical Ambiance. Kansas Bride's Trends and Tips.

1/4/2020

There's No Place Like Home
for Your Wedding!

A bright and whimsical garden wedding is very wedding budget friendly!

Less is more when you take full advantage of what you already have at hand. Even if you don't have your own backyard yet, you likely know someone who does.

Ask friends and family if they would be willing to host your wedding. Chances are they will jump at the chance to get in on all the fun of decorating and arranging. The more the merrier and there are hundreds of great outdoor wedding themes to choose from that are delightfully whimsical and oh so affordable.

Set the tone of your wedding with a eye popping array of vibrant spring colors.
Accent with your reception tables with mason jars filled with colorful spring flowers.

Natural, Easy Outdoor and Home Wedding Decorations. Wedding Altar Designs.

Utilizing the wonderful gifts of mother nature insures a perfect wedding venue every time. Romantic charm is a sure bet with a garden wedding.

Even on the smallest wedding budget you can still create a home garden wedding worth a million with a little imagination and creativity.

Home Weddings, Practical, Affordable and Stunning!

Set the mood with some colorful and inexpensive paper lanterns, this adds a special flair to your wedding. By using simple well placed lighting you'll create an magical, festive and relaxed atmosphere.

Weddings are all about family and friends coming together to celebrate your marriage. If you were to take a poll of your guest list, you'll likely find that most would much prefer the intimacy and whimsical charm of a backyard wedding to that of a expensive commercial venue or even a church setting. It's so much more personal and welcoming.

Awesome Autumn Outdoor Venue
Perfect for Elopements & Small Weddings!

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Where to Have Outdoor Weddings in Wichita KS

9/18/2019

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Blended Family Mini Wedding Specials

8/24/2019

Precious Vows Ceremonies

Our Blended Family Wedding Recipe Is Just Right!

This is the perfect balance and blend of a wonderfully intimate, family affordable, delightfully whimsical and oh so accommodating
Blended Family Wedding Affair.
Even the family fur babies can attend!
There's no need to put off the wedding ceremony any longer.
This is just too easy not to do.
Celebrate Your I Do's at this Family Friendly Mini Gazebo!

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Blended Family Weddings

Family Values
What Are Family Values and Why Are They Important?

Elopements, Quick, Easy and Affordable.

8/3/2019

A Sweet Little Mini Gazebo Elopement
Just for 2 or invite up to 12 guests if you desire.
Need Witnesses? No Problem!
We Provide Legal Witnesses on Request.
How To Reserve A Mini Gazebo Elopement
Fur Babies Welcome to Attend!

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Sunset Wedding Venue Suggestions, Casual, Relaxed and Romantic

7/6/2019

Romantic Riverside Sunset Weddings
Prices Range from $175 to $295
Suitable for Elopements and Small Weddings of up to 50 guests.
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Have a Pet Friendly Mini Gazebo Elopement

5/31/2019

A Pet Friendly Favorite!
Celebrate Your I Do's
at this Lovely Little Whimsical Mini Gazebo

Fur Babies Welcome to Attend!

A favorite venue option for couples that desire a romantic,
low key, no stress nuptial celebration.
* Elopements & Micro Weddings *
The Perfect Intimate Nuptial Celebration
Just for Two or invite up to 18 guests.
Sunset Ceremonies During the Summer Months.

Current Elopement Special

Tips for Selecting a Wedding Officiant at the Last Minute.

5/26/2019

That moment when you are taking inventory of your wedding
To Do List and realize everything is in place except the
Wedding Officiant!

Ooops! Huston, we have a problem!

Don't panic. This happens more often than you might imagine.
For those that have been following our blog, you are already aware that the best wedding planning protocol dictates that when you book your Wedding Venue you should then (( immediately )) reserve your
Wedding Officiant.
These are the first two critical elements that should be in place from the very start if you wish to avoid undue stress and scheduling mishaps.

So now what?
Most bride's will go to the nearest wedding directory and click every Wedding Officiant listing in sight, believing someone is bound to be available.

Maybe, maybe not ... and if someone is available ... will they be a good fit for your wedding style?

You might be feeling desperate at this point and thinking, I'll just have to take whatever is available as there is little time between now and the wedding date. Indeed, this may very well be the case. And even so...this is not the best way to handle the situation.

So take a deep breath and keep reading as we provide you with the best solution moving forward.

Still, you will want to make the best selection possible.
After all, this is your wedding ceremony and the reason for all that wedding planning isn't it?
So before you doing anything else,
we recommend reviewing our earlier article,
Wedding Officiant, How to Choose the One that's Right for You.
This will get you going in the right direction in short order.

Whimsical, Cute and Cozy Mini Gazebo Elopements

3/28/2019

Delightfully Romantic, Stress Free
and Affordable!

If your preferred wedding style desire is to be outdoors, carefree and casual, then this is your ideal elopement!
You'll enjoy this romantic little hide away, perfectly suitable for elopements with a guests list from four to twenty.

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The Picture Perfect Days of Fall for Your Nuptials

Here Are a Few of Our FavoriteAffordable Fall Wedding Venues

Keeper of the Plains Landmark Weddings

Riverside Park Weddings ​Mini Water Fall or Gazebo

Douglas River Corridor Riverside Weddings

Elopements & Small Weddings Up to 50 Guests Ranging from $195 to $295

Sunset Riverside Weddings

Scenic Landmark Riverside Weddings

Scenic Weddings

Just Marry Us ElopementsOffered May through November ​Summer Sunset Ceremonies

Enjoy a Simply Lovely Little Elopement at the Mini Gazebo

Mini GazeboJust Marry Us***Weekday Specials***A Lovely Courthouse Alternative( Bride & Groom Plus 2 Witnesses )Mon - Tues - Wed - Thurs - Mini Gazebo Venue Only $95Need Witnesses? Add Legal Witnesses on Request!Just Marry Us with Guests: Bride, Groom & 6 Guest $135

Beautiful & Affordable ​Riverside Landmark Weddings

Summer Scheduling: ​Late June - July - August - Early SeptPlease Note: During times of high heat and humidity we offer Sunset Ceremonies Only.Ceremony Start Times: 7:30pm-8:00pm or 8:30pm Use the app below to calculate sunset times for your desired wedding date. TimeAndDate.com

Early Spring and Fall Scheduling April - May -Early June - Late September - Oct - Early NovemberCeremony Start Times Offered: 1pm, 2pm, 3pm

Choose a Venue, Select Your Guests List Size, Save the Date ... Done!It's Just That Easy!

Douglas River Corridor ​Suitable for Simple Elopements and Small Weddings up to 50 Guests

Keeper of the Plains​Suitable for Simple Elopements and Small Weddings up to 26 Guests

Riverside Park Gazebo ​Suitable for Simple Elopements and Small Weddings up to 26 Guests

Riverside Park Mini Waterfall​Suitable for Simple Elopements and Small Weddings up to 26 Guests

Best Landmark Venues for Elopements and Small Weddings​in Wichita KSSo Simple... Choose a Venue... Select Your Guest List Size...Save the Date...Done!It's Just That Easy!

Open Prairie Sunset Ceremonies Beautiful & Affordable Countryside NuptialsElopements & Weddings

Douglas River Corridor Wichita KSStunning Riverside Weddings ​Suitable for Elopements and Small Weddings of up to 50 Guests Dining and Lodging Just Steps Away!

Keeper of the Plains Wichita KSUnforgettable Riverside Weddings​Suitable for Elopements and Mini Weddings up to 26 guests

Riverside Park GazeboScenic Lilly Pond Suitable for Elopements, and Mini Weddings up to 26 guests ​

Mini Water Fall RiversideSuitable for Elopements, and Mini Weddings up to 26 guests

Mini Gazebo Derby KSSimply Lovely Little Elopements Suitable for Elopements and Micro Weddings up to 16 guests Fur Babies Welcome!

Have you been considering a simply sweet​ no fuss romantic little elopement?Just waiting for the right time and right place? Well, good news ...the wait is over!A Favorite for Simply Sweet Little Elopements and Lovely Little Low Cost Blended Family Weddings.

Enjoy This Perfect Little Hidden Gem forYour I Do's.​Offered Spring - Summer - Fall

Affordable and Beautiful So Simple... Choose a Venue... Select Your Guests List Size...​Save the Date... Done! Prices Range From $195 to $395Explore All the Wonderful Options!

Wedding Wisdom Tips Wedding Officiant, How to Choose the One that's Right for You. When to Book the Wedding Officiant? Wedding Wisdom Tips for Wedding Planning in Wichita Kansas Wedding Rehearsal Considerations Four Key Elements to an Amazing Wedding Ceremony.

To Rehearse or Not Rehearse.Here are the answers to that question.

A wedding rehearsal is based on the degree of ceremony formality.

There are never any two wedding ceremonies alike.

The Best Man Duties...the team leader

Maid or Matron of Honor Duties...the team leader

Usher's Duties...the team players

There's No Place Like Homefor Your Wedding!

Awesome Autumn Outdoor VenuePerfect for Elopements & Small Weddings!

Our Blended Family Wedding Recipe Is Just Right!

A Sweet Little Mini Gazebo ElopementJust for 2 or invite up to 12 guests if you desire.Need Witnesses? No Problem!We Provide Legal Witnesses on Request.How To Reserve A Mini Gazebo ElopementFur Babies Welcome to Attend!

Romantic Riverside Sunset Weddings Prices Range from $175 to $295 ​Suitable for Elopements and Small Weddings of up to 50 guests.Click Images For More Details

A Pet Friendly Favorite!Celebrate Your I Do'sat this Lovely Little Whimsical Mini Gazebo

Fur Babies Welcome to Attend!

A favorite venue option for couples that desire a romantic,low key, no stress nuptial celebration.*** Elopements & Micro Weddings ***The Perfect Intimate Nuptial CelebrationJust for Two or invite up to 18 guests.Sunset Ceremonies During the Summer Months.

That moment when you are taking inventory of your weddingTo Do List and realize everything is in place except the Wedding Officiant!

Ooops! Huston, we have a problem!

Delightfully Romantic, Stress Freeand Affordable!

If your preferred wedding style desire is to be outdoors, carefree and casual, then this is your ideal elopement!You'll enjoy this romantic little hide away, perfectly suitable for elopements with a guests list from four to twenty.

Reserve Your Delightfully Charming Mini Gazebo Elopement Today!

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