Entering into marriage is a huge life altering event, you are placing everything that you are or ever will be into each others hands and hearts with the intention of building a new life together.
The truth is, building a loving, healthy, supportive and lasting life together doesn't just happen...it's created.
All "successful marriages" arise from each individual consciously taking full responsibility for themselves and owing their own stuff first. Mastering the Self must come from a place of true authenticity (from an unimpeded heart space) not (a limiting ego self, old baggage, etc.), which enables the individual and the couple to fully engage, grow, learn and expand within the love they share without limitation.
The love you share with each other is in fact a separate living breathing entity in and of itself.
You might very well liken it to a child you have created together. It is comprised of many intricate facets of who you are as individuals, thereby creating who you are as a couple.
And like a child, it requires constant care and devotion.
So then, it's reasonable and wise to give wakeful consciousness and consideration as to how you will both care for and nurture this most precious child, "your relationship" to full maturity...would it not?
Marriage is the most amazing and rewarding journey you will ever embark on, it can also be equally challenging when unprepared.
You are promising each other that you will "really be there, fully and wholly".
That you will apply yourself to the relationship as husband and wife, with "All That You Are".
In today's western culture of consumerism and commercialism, many couples have an unrealistic and superficial understanding of love and marriage and little understanding in the way of Self Mastery or relationship tools. Few understand or are even aware of the profound Spiritual aspects of themselves, let alone each others Spiritual roles within marriage. The good news is, there are steps you can take to ensure that you are doing and being the very best you can to make your marriage a successful one.
Facilitating insights and a leap forward into understanding the current health of your relationship.
Bringing to light the areas of strength as well as areas you may wish to work on before counseling begins.
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