Four Key Elements to an Amazing Wedding Ceremony.

Wedding Ceremony Considerations.

As you contemplate your wedding plans and ceremony, you'll have much to consider.

To avoid spiraling into wedding option overload, aka Wedding Crazies,  here are some helpful tips that will assist you with your decision making process and shed some  light on the way to a more enjoyable and truly rewarding experience.

Consider this, planning a wedding together is much like a marriage on training wheels. The nature of what the two of you will experience while planning the wedding will prove to be very revealing, and to the wise, offer keen opportunities for you to learn, grow and hone in on the development of your marriage skills.  In truth, it's a snap shot of how well you will work together within your marriage and the years beyond.    

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Contemplating Your Shared Love and
the Core Values of What Your
Marriage Journey is About?  

Tip One:
Know Thyself: Who are you and what are you about?
Focus on your truest nature as opposed to popular wedding trends.
What are you about as a couple?
What's the foundation of your relationship, what is most important to you, what are your shared values, what are you creating together and where are you going together? 
What characterizes your sacred journey as husband and wife?
This is key in creating your wedding ceremony plans.
If you can stay true to yourselves as a couple, the perfect path forward will make itself known clearly.

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Use Your Heart's Inspiration, Keep it Simple, True Love isn't Complicated.

Tip Two:
Think with your heart.
Consider how you desire to experience and feel in the moment of your vow exchange and union.

The exchange of your vows is no less than the flag stone and foundation of your marriage. As such, it deserves thoughtful reflection from the mind of your heart. This is not to say a couple needs to labor or fret over the wording of the vows. Rather, it's about capturing precisely the nature of the love you share. To the surprise of many wedding couples, this doesn't require pages of verbiage and readings to convey. This does require, however, a very skillful and knowledgeable professional. Your Wedding Minister / Officiant will prove to be most helpful in this area.
We offer online vow consultations and counseling to assist, guide and connect you to your truest and most natural essence which will enable to create, with our assistance, the vows that truly express who you are as a couple and the true nature of your sacred journey as husband and wife. This is a most rewarding and enlightening undertaking. One which will serve you both very well in the many years to come.

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Stay True to Yourselves, Only the Two of You Know the Depth of Your Hearts.

Tip Three:
Avoid the expectations of others and the ever changing commercial wedding trends. While such things offer near endless options and ideas, one can quickly get off track with their personal wedding plan focus within the plethora  of possibilities.  After all, you aren't buying a pair of trendy shoes are you...no...this is far more than that. Hold fast to your true intimate essential nature as a wedding couple, as this is very essence of your path forward as husband and wife.

By remaining dedicated to your deepest intentions, you'll find what is right for the two of you will surface naturally.

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Observation and Guiding vs
Controlling and Managing.

Tip Four:
The more relaxed and natural the ceremony and gathering is...the more natural beauty will derive in and of it's own.
Trust yourself and each other. Know that it's impossible to think out and control each and every detail of your wedding. To try to do so is actually counter productive and creates great strife within the wedding process, which bleeds chaotic energy  into the event, each other and ultimately the ceremony and reception.

This unfortunate mistake presents itself when the couple focuses too much of their attention on the outward appearances rather than the inward heart centered creation taking place. 

What very few think about or truly understand:
Wedding Ceremonies are in fact a form of living energy, in which you are both  within the very moment of your vows, giving life to.
If you consider this concept, it's huge!
It literally maps your marriage journey into the future together.
As such, it is indeed a living energy which is being brought forward into your personal reality to take form and live. This newly formed creation is the foundation of your marriage. It lives as an extension  of each of you and will strengthen, grow and develop in accordance with the quality of care and attention each of you place into it. Try stepping back, become the neutral observer, note what is taking form, experiment with  guidance vs control. An open heart will enable an open mind.
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See You at the Altar
Rev. Allie

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