Entering into marriage is a huge life altering event, you are placing everything that you are or ever will be into each others hands and hearts with the intention of building a new life together.
The truth is, building a loving, healthy, supportive and lasting life together doesn't just happen...it is consciously and intentionally created.
All "successful marriages" arise from each individual consciously taking full responsibility for themselves and owing their own stuff first.
Mastering the Self must come from a place of true authenticity (from an unimpeded heart space) not (a limiting ego self, old baggage, etc.), which enables the individual and the couple to fully engage, grow, learn and expand within the love they share without limitation.
The love you share with each other is in fact a living energy, a God Seed Connection if you will, which emanates from your Soul. The ability to give and receive love is a precious gift from God, How you care for nurture and enrich this precious gift is in accordance with your Free Will and Conscious Creation. Self Understanding, Self Mastery and Self Responsibility are essential keys to your personal and relationship success and wellbeing.
You might very well liken it to a child you have created together. It is comprised of many intricate facets of who you are as individuals, thereby creating who you are as a couple.
And like a child, it requires constant care and a lifetime of devotion.
So then, it's reasonable and wise to give wakeful consciousness and consideration as to how you will both wakefully proceed, care for and nurture this most precious gift, "your relationship" into full maturity...would it not?
Marriage is the most amazing and rewarding journey you will ever embark on, it can also be equally challenging when spiritually unprepared.
You are promising each other that you will "really be there, fully and wholly".
That you will apply yourself to the relationship as husband and wife, with "All That You Are and in Divine Right Order.
In today's western culture of consumerism, commercialism and Service to Self Values,
many couples have an unrealistic and superficial understanding of love and marriage and little, if any, understanding in the ways of Spiritual Self Mastery or knowledge of basic relationship skills.
Few understand or are even aware of the profound Spiritual aspects of themselves, let alone each others Spiritual roles within marriage.
The good news is, there are steps you can take to ensure that you are doing and being the very best you can to make your marriage a successful one. It begins by taking full responsibility for your personal relationship with your Creator and Christ Consciousness.
Lets begin with...
Compassionate Communication. This life philosophy is met with focused intentions to express communication and behaviors with an open heart which is congruent with these VALUES:
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